“To The Cheap & Low Minded People “

It’s a universal truth that no one is born perfect . Yet some people make sure to drag, to insult , to underestimate other people. I really feel pity for these people. You might be wondering why to feel pity for such people right? Well yes I feel so and it’s because they tend to forget the universal truth about “No one is perfect” which means they aren’t excluded but yet they confidently forget it & become body shamers or the loosers because they fail to see the good in others. They fail to see that everyone is born unique and each one is having some unique spark within. Guys you dont give guidelines as to how one should live their life? How one should look like? . Everyone is having their own definition of life & no one needs your approval. So stop making guidelines or stop judging others. The time you waste in setting guidelines and in judging others the same amount of time is used by them to make best of it for themselves and they are actually way ahead of you😊. So dear cheap and low minded people what do you think? You are perfect? If you are thinking in this way let me tell you …you are imperfect . Just because you have taken a dig at someone’s flaws or drawbacks or weaknesses or just because you yes only you thought that certain person is like this or like that. It doesn’t indicate you are perfect , you are smart. Infact problem is with you and not with them whom YOUand not THEY think that they are inferior or weak in any way. Problem is in your way of thinking. You are really having a narrow way of thinking. Yes you are having a narrow way of thinking that is why you tend to assume others as weak, you tend to make fun of them, you tend to underestimate them. But in anyway you had broader way of thinking you wouldn’t have done this to anyone. Your thoughts grow cheaper and cheaper every time you think of insulting or underestimating others and that’s the reason you carry narrow minded thoughts. It’s not only about the thinking process but also it’s about your image. Doing these things may sound very cool to you but have you ever thought what impact it has on the person going through these phases? They really find you cheap. They start disconnecting to you. They might be even your near & dear ones so if they lack attachment towards you dont blame them blame yourself. Their reactions are the result of your actions. You never know whom you think as weak or inferior may shine brightly in future. May do wonders which you personally never thought of you doing it or you never thought they may do it . But they will do it surely because they will prove you wrong . Because they will work on their brighter side & you will waste your time in becoming a negative chapter in their lives. All I need to say is dont tend to be a VILLAIN in anyone’s life instead try to be a hero & if it’s not possible for you to be a hero try to be a supporter , motivator and even if this is not possible then shut your mouth and watch how they excel without you 😎

By

Aparna Chavan 😍

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Thought of the Day

“Stay intact with your life goals and just delete toxic people around you. Stay happy Stay Blessed”

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🤔Use of mobile phone can be a reason for murder?
Use of technology has literally changed our lifestyle . Particularly it has lessened our person to person communication so much so that we have seen many people complaining about it but I was surprised when I learnt about a recent case . It is a case about gurugram A man killed his wife over a mobile phone . Yes he actually murdered her because she had become so addicted to it that she became negligent and ignorant about her own family. She was too much addicted to Facebook and whatsapp that she had stopped cooking or paying attention to her kids studies and also ignored her husband & always ended up quarelling with husband whenever he confronted her . Annoyed by this he sent his children to hostel in kurukshetra but somehow this did not change his wife . Frustrated by this He murdered his wife.but can literally this can be a reason for murder? Am shocked the way he has turned out to be a criminal by ruining his own life behind the prison. If a small effort of making her realise her own mistake would have turned out todays phase but unfortunately people are loosing their conscious level & acting in this way. Manage your priorities properly don’t ruin your life out of frustration or ego or anger think wisely & act wisely.😊

CAREER IS A BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY

The word career is so important in our lives isn’t it? It is an inseparable part of our life right from the moment we take birth . Yes actually the word follows us right from our birth some families even decide about the profession or career that their new borns may pursue in future so pathetic isn’t it?. I personally feel that career is one’s area of choice and interest and one should go for it. It is something that is a never ending process if one chooses to wore it in their lives. I have seen and even heard parents pressurizing their children to choose career of their choice and not the one in which they are really interested to go on for it. The pressure on students to score is so much that education for them becomes stressful and more depressing I do not intend to say that one should’ t supervise and improvise on their academics. Yes academics is the very essence of living a mankind and good grades are also of utmost importance to many institutions, organisations but that does’t mean to stress oneself and moreover it does’t even state that the persons having good academic background are intelligent while others who have poor academic background are dumb . Yes each one of us is born with some unique skills. People with low academic background can possess some different skills which other good grade students may not for example they might be good in music, dance, sports or photography, painting etc so why not to support them in their areas of interest? there is a huge scope for career in this fields too . The only thing we need to do is to think by coming out of the comfort zone, thinking out of the box and to motivate, encourage and inspire people to choose their career with their choice and with their interests and there will be wonders .

I have even come across people who have switched over to other stream because they did not wish to stay there because they lacked interest in it. so what is the use of wasting your time, money or energy in something that you were never interested for better to do that which gives us satisfaction every area or every skill has a greater scope if we tend to achieve it sincerely . There is also something called career break this is something quiet common among women’s . Due to the family responsibilities many women’s have to opt for it there are also some other things that tend one to opt for career break. BUT CAREER BREAK is not an end of career yes its not an end trust me. There are many online, offline, work from home jobs or mini businesses that one can carry out. The gist is to make you believe that career is an never ending process and career is a beautiful journey. To design it is in our hands, To nurture it & to stand out of the crowd is in our hands BECAUSE CAREER IS A BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY