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Yes, I Did Not Cry at My Sister’s Wedding

Indu and Vinoda were two loving sister’s living in a small town of karnataka. The two sister’s were very much attached to eachother, They were more like best friends for each other. Indu was 26years old a year older than her younger sister who was 25 years. Indu was very loving and caring towards her younger sister she was the best elder sister to her sister vinoda but Indu was a bit sensitive girl. On the other hand vinoda was very Practical girl . She was very bold enough to put her views across anyone. Indu being the elder one had to get married before her younger sister gets married. So here came the much awaited Wedding Day of Indu. Vinoda was very much happy as her sister had found her love of life and is going to get married so was Indu happy for her wedding day that she always dreamt of and which every other young girl dreams of. It was 17th Dec 2016 Indu’s wedding day. All her friends and relatives were very excited, laughter knew no boundaries , each and everyone was happy. Indu’s marriage got solrmnised according to Hindu rituals and ceremonies all were happy and were feeling sad as she will be taken away. Meanwhile all the guests and other things were managed by her younger sister Vinoda which was really managed systematically. It was really appreciable all complimented her . Soon the time arrived where Indu and her new family were about to live their way . The sad part of every wedding arrived where a daughter was going to her matrimonial home leaving her parents and sister. Indu met her parents , hugged them and cried a lot so did they cry. She met all her relatives who too had tears in their eyes . They were happy but feeling sad as Indu is going far from them. Finally Indu hugged her younger sister and cried a lot . Vinoda hugged her sister back she was in pain but she did not cry instead gave her best wishes for her new life with a smile and Indu left for her matrimonial home with her new family. Vinoda and her family with their relatives returned back to their home. Soon the discussion started amongst their relatives. They started saying wedding was Good, Indu and her hubby make a good couple and Indu was really looking very beautiful I must say in between the whole discussion was interrupted by Vinoda’s Maasi ( aunt) . She called out Vinoda and said

Maasi- Hey, Vinoda your elder sister was going away from you and you did not cry?

Vinoda- Yes Maasi I did not cry.

Maasi- But I thought you would cry the most?

Vinoda – No Maasi it was nothing as such.

Soon it was interrupted by another aunt sitting beside.

Aunt- Didn’t you feel pain as your sister was going far away from you?

Vinoda- Yes Aunty I did feel the pain.

Aunt- Then why didn’t you cry ? It didn’t seem by your face that you felt the pain.

Vinoda- Yes Aunt, Yes Maasi, I did not cry at my sister’s wedding. Does it mean that shedding tears or crying only is the way of expressing feelings or pain? Some people like me dont feel so. Yes you all cried when Indu was leaving for her matrimonial home. You all cried because you all are sensitive and tears rolled down your cheeks. I am practical and did not cry but that doesn’t mean I dont have emotions . It doesn’t mean that I dont value feelings .My sister very well knows how much I love her and I dont have to cry to show her that she knows my feelings for her. I am not emotionless I am just emotionally strong . Please do not mispercieve me being emotionally strong as emotionless. I have just mastered the art of controlling my tears . Yes I did not cry at my sister’s wedding. Though she was going far away distance from me . My bond with her is forever . Her marriage will never end my relation with her . Yes she is married and is a part of new family but she was my sister , she is my sister & she will always be my sister . She has just started a new life for herself which she always dreamt of and am more happy to see her dreams coming true and this thought brings only smile on my face . Our way of expressing feelings are different but feelings are same 😊

“THE DIARY OF A SPINSTER”

Reva a grownup spinster was a working professional working in Multinational Company in Pune. She was 25 and a spinster so called single:) . She was very sweet . simple and a good looking girl yet was a shyful girl. Almost many of her colleagues were in relationship they used to often go on dates, night stands used to have breakups and used to indulge in other relationships easily . On the other hand Reva never cared about having an affair because she valued her family values most. she had a very conservative family an middle class family but this did not mean Reva was narrow minded as her colleagues portrayed her over their gossips at office canteens. tea breaks or during their leisure time. She was rather a well matured girl who was well determined with her life goals & about having an relationship she was clear to have a permanent long lasting relationship so she was single & she never showed any personal interest over her colleagues relationships as she thought that she has no right to interfere in anyone’s personal lives and moreover she never liked relationships that existed over temporary pleasures.

But yes Reva was also a young girl and she too had dreams about her partner. she was never a silly girl as some of her colleagues felt she was just shyful. she was single but that does’t mean no one proposed her she was proposed by many boys some were her classmates some friends but she did not mingle up with anyone not because they werent good but they were just not the way she dreamt about her partner. She had very sweet dreams about her partner which she wrote in her diary. she was a silent romantic person she dreamt of having someone as a partner who will be her best friend first than a partner because she believed friendship lasts forever even if love does’t . she dreamt about him as the one who always showed up whenever she felt sad, happy or whatever the mood was. she dreamt of having an partner who walked with her to fulfill all her wishes, dreams all this she hided from the whole world but always dreamt about him silently. As she was single her family started looking out marriage proposals for her. One after the one proposals started pouring in but for one or the other reason her marriage was not getting fixed either some rejected her or horoscopes did not match. Reva started staying very silent, she cried a lot as she went through many harsh comments from her relatives & they were not actually concerned about her but had no business like many other people out there other than troubling others. But Reva was very kind girl she did not said a word to them but kept writing her feelings in a diary dedicated to her dream boy. she was a strong believer of god & hence always prayed to have her dream boy as her husband. But as they say pure prayers of pure souls do not go waste so this is what true for Reva. She got married to Rishi, An entrpreneur who not only married her but became her best friend and walked with her to fulfill her dreams. And they both started living happily as best friends, as best companions & as best couples , as an ideal couples for other married couples who looked upon them as an inspiration of happily married life.

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🤔Use of mobile phone can be a reason for murder?
Use of technology has literally changed our lifestyle . Particularly it has lessened our person to person communication so much so that we have seen many people complaining about it but I was surprised when I learnt about a recent case . It is a case about gurugram A man killed his wife over a mobile phone . Yes he actually murdered her because she had become so addicted to it that she became negligent and ignorant about her own family. She was too much addicted to Facebook and whatsapp that she had stopped cooking or paying attention to her kids studies and also ignored her husband & always ended up quarelling with husband whenever he confronted her . Annoyed by this he sent his children to hostel in kurukshetra but somehow this did not change his wife . Frustrated by this He murdered his wife.but can literally this can be a reason for murder? Am shocked the way he has turned out to be a criminal by ruining his own life behind the prison. If a small effort of making her realise her own mistake would have turned out todays phase but unfortunately people are loosing their conscious level & acting in this way. Manage your priorities properly don’t ruin your life out of frustration or ego or anger think wisely & act wisely.😊

CAREER IS A BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY

The word career is so important in our lives isn’t it? It is an inseparable part of our life right from the moment we take birth . Yes actually the word follows us right from our birth some families even decide about the profession or career that their new borns may pursue in future so pathetic isn’t it?. I personally feel that career is one’s area of choice and interest and one should go for it. It is something that is a never ending process if one chooses to wore it in their lives. I have seen and even heard parents pressurizing their children to choose career of their choice and not the one in which they are really interested to go on for it. The pressure on students to score is so much that education for them becomes stressful and more depressing I do not intend to say that one should’ t supervise and improvise on their academics. Yes academics is the very essence of living a mankind and good grades are also of utmost importance to many institutions, organisations but that does’t mean to stress oneself and moreover it does’t even state that the persons having good academic background are intelligent while others who have poor academic background are dumb . Yes each one of us is born with some unique skills. People with low academic background can possess some different skills which other good grade students may not for example they might be good in music, dance, sports or photography, painting etc so why not to support them in their areas of interest? there is a huge scope for career in this fields too . The only thing we need to do is to think by coming out of the comfort zone, thinking out of the box and to motivate, encourage and inspire people to choose their career with their choice and with their interests and there will be wonders .

I have even come across people who have switched over to other stream because they did not wish to stay there because they lacked interest in it. so what is the use of wasting your time, money or energy in something that you were never interested for better to do that which gives us satisfaction every area or every skill has a greater scope if we tend to achieve it sincerely . There is also something called career break this is something quiet common among women’s . Due to the family responsibilities many women’s have to opt for it there are also some other things that tend one to opt for career break. BUT CAREER BREAK is not an end of career yes its not an end trust me. There are many online, offline, work from home jobs or mini businesses that one can carry out. The gist is to make you believe that career is an never ending process and career is a beautiful journey. To design it is in our hands, To nurture it & to stand out of the crowd is in our hands BECAUSE CAREER IS A BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY